But even as much we conceal our issues we should also search out how to resolve our issues.

Pro 25:2  It is the glory of God to conceal a thing: but the honour of kings is to search out a matter.
Pro 25:3  The heaven for height, and the earth for depth, and the heart of kings is unsearchable.
Pro 25:5  Take away the wicked from before the king, and his throne shall be established in righteousness.

As Christian business professionals as marriage partners we should conceal a matter only to reveal when it is absolutely necessary, telling your spouses inner most secrets is like telling the world about your spouse soiled undergarments. But even as much we conceal our issues we should also search out how  to resolve our issues. Then at that point that person experience how much more you love them because when they consider what you do and how you don't trip or get uncontrollable then they realize the accountability to you  is greater than the anxiety in the mistake you made.

also if we all realize we are all challenge what demonic hangups and hick ups, so we find to do what is right , but there willl come  time when we do what is right for righteousness sake